ALL Options Open???

A truncated conversation I had via text last night with a girl with whom I used to be involved got me thinking...

What would a relationship with a SM (Sugar Momma, for those who haven't caught on yet) be like?

Truthfully, I've always preferred women to men. I'm attracted to a certain 'type' in both genders, but I find the female form to be quite appealing, so many of my lovers have been women.

When I decided to enter the sugar world, I didn't think much of it as an option.  I guess, because I'd always looked at my experiences with women as a realm of pure pleasure, the thought never occurred.

I'd imagine finding a SM as a female might prove more difficult than finding a SD.  Don't get me wrong, I'm enjoying the "hunt" for a generous gentleman...but what's so wrong with having a little fun with a generous lady as well?

Any (female) SBs out there have experience with SMs?  What did you like best about the relationship?  [If you're not comfortable letting it all out, feel free to answer anonymously.]

Okay, Here Goes Nothing...

Right off the edge into...

So, after researching the bowl for a while, then falling into a VERY short-lived IRL "relationship" (if you can even call it that), here I am.  I've started to actually check my SD site profiles to see what happens.

For a while...NOTHING.

Perhaps it was the fact that I never logged on, or that I pretty much never responded to the early requests when I first joined, but the fish were NOT biting with I took the plunge at the end of last month (Dec.). 

What's wrong, I wondered. I'm not unattractive (not full enough of myself to think I'm everyone's cup of tea, either), so why am I only getting one or two hits a week?

Honestly, it was the pictures I used.  I was trying way too hard to be discreet, so I used photos that didn't highlight the parts of myself I love most: my height, long hair, and "intriguing" (or so I've been told) eyes.  New girls, don't DO that!  If you don't love the photo you put up, neither will anyone else.

So, I went back & switched out a couple shots, signed up for a new site, and lo & behold...

I met Mr. Skyscraper.

He sent me a really nice message on EM that set me at ease & didn't sound like he was a complete nutbag (plus he has a great smile & happens to be a little younger than one of my IRL exes), so I replied.  He was open & answered my questions without hesitation, so we exchanged emails.

Today, we had our first phone call, and I laughed until I almost hacked up my lungs [I've got a cold].  He didn't mind.

At the end of our conversation, he reiterated that our time together, should we decide to move forward, would be limited because he is attached. I told him, again, I'm okay with that.

We've both agreed we'd like to get together as soon as I'm feeling well & discuss things more. He seems the gentleman, so I'm looking forward.

Only time will tell. Wish me luck, Ladies!

I'll always do the same for you,
Dandie

Time to Get Things Started...

New Year, new me.  Here I am starting another blog project about a part of my life that I'm currently discovering.

Moi, as Sugar Baby.

I find myself intrigued, excited, nervous - but raring to go.

Before I get too far ahead of myself, perhaps a bit of introduction is in order:

Now that I actually have some Sugar friends to read this, I guess I should write a little more about me:

If I said I just like the simple things in life, I'd be lying. I'm a complex, multi-faceted woman with loads of ambition & very big dreams.

Had you asked me about the "sugar thing" 5 years ago, I would have wrinkled my nose & told you to go to he**.

Why?

Because I, like so many others, bought into the mainstream BS about mutually beneficial relationships being immoral, prostitution, blah blah blah.

Today, I believe if someone cares for me, they'll encourage me toward the accomplishment of my wildest goals & dreams. Life's too short to waste time on anyone who believes otherwise.

I hope to learn & grow as a part of this community...and one day, pay it forward to help another Sugar Sister find her way in this crazy - and amazing- life. I'd love to know ya; stick around.

MUAH!
Dandie